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neverrrr gonna get a boyfriend..
Hey, so I know that probably that a lot of girls say this on here, but I guess I'm gonna say it now. I'm 15, female. All my friends say I'm pretty, but I seriously don't think I am. My friends, I guess you could consider them "popular". I just don't talk to guys very much. And if I do, it's never like a serious talk, it's always joking around. I always see my friends having serious talkes with guys, and their like, best friends with them. I'm just not like that. I consider myself as kind of, socialy akward, maybe. Like, I have cute clothes, good hair, great friends, but those things aren't that important in life. I just feel like I'm never going to get a boyfriend. I've never had one before. My friends say I should just wait until college to have a bf, but sometimes I just don't want to do that. I'm not looking for sex or anything like that, I'm just looking for a nice, sweet guy. All the guys that always like me, aren't that good looking. And I know that's really bad of me to say, and that's not all I care about, trust me, but looks are something. I don't know what to do. Guys don't know anything about me. There's actually a lot that people don't know about me. Like I love the NHRA drag racing. I think that if people knew more about me, they might like me more, but no one really ever asks. And if I bring something like that up, it's just akward. So what should I do???? I feel like I'm not pretty or skinny enough. Like, I'm not super skinny, but I'm not super fat. And my confidence level is usually very low, if you couldn't already tell. What to do???? Thanks
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u gotta have self esteem !
well ur exactly were I'm at haha
I've just learnd to live w/o a boyf
not saying I don't want one but if the rite guy comes along then sure y not rite :D
but the guys before asking me out in all I just wasn't attactd to
its just how life is I guess
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Well sometimes I feel the same way that your feeling right now, but I'm only 13. What i suggest, is just try talking to boys. Maybe if your friends are hanging out with some guys, ask if you can tag along. You might be able to talk to the boys more.
Also, if you don't feel that you are perfect, trust me, no one is. It may seem weird, but tell yourself something nice every morning. Like, say that your teeth look really white today, or your hair looks flawless. It will definetly make you feel much better about yourself.
Don't spend time pulling yourself down, try to boost yourself up. Hope I helped!
Alyssa(:
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First and foremost, you need to smile at yourself in the mirror. It is perfectly normal to feel lonely at times. Everyone on this planet feels it at some point in their lives, because deep down we all want a feeling of belonging.
That said; you're 15 years old and you have PLENTY of time left ahead of you. Worrying about something as silly as not having a boyfriend isn't going to do you any good. This isn't a test, and you can't flunk if you don't have a boyfriend by the end of Summer.
Try loving yourself more. Forgive yourself of the things you can't let go; give yourself a break. There is nothing more attractive than a person who is confidant with themselves (not arrogant mind you, but mindful that they aren't worthless).
And there is good news:
There is a law that governs the universe, and it's called the Law of Attraction. It states that you will only get what you give.
You are obviously a person with depth, and if your friends tell you that you're pretty... believe them. Take that in. Enjoy that you are who you are and try to let things go their natural way. You need to be open to just letting things happen, and stop concerning yourself if things don't go the way you expected them to.
Something *will* come along.
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