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Age: 14
Member Since: September 5, 2008
Answers: 7
Last Update: September 7, 2008
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Ok....so there's this boy that goes to my school he really likes me and I like him too...today we shared our first hug together and it was amazing...lol...but anyway he keeps asking me for my number but everytime I want to I just can't do it...I would say I'm kinda a shy person...but I really like him....what can I do....how can I give him my number without being so shy??? Please help me.

Thanx in advance!!! (link)
ask him for his #
but that would mean ud have to call him which I don't know if ud like to do
just next time he asks give it to him haha.
or exchange so you know wen he calls wen he does
& you won't b forced to make the 1st call


ok im 14 and female.
im 170 pounds and kinda short.
so i wanna lose a lot of weight. i've come up with a food plan tell me what you think:

breakfast- about 15 grapes
(no snack because im at school and we cant eat until lunch)
lunch- wheat bread with ham cheese and mayo,
130 calories worth of raisins,
100 calorie cheeto bag and
100 calorie bag of chocolate cookies

snack when i get home: a large pretzel stick and a few pieces of colby jack cheese

dinner: salad with low fat ranch dressing.

and this is it. any suggestions or tips for me? do i need any revisation?
i dont really work out because i have a crap load of homework when i get home then i go to sleep at nine and wake up at 6.

though, i do walk really fast from getting to one school to the other and up and downstairs.

help?? (link)
my opinion is never diet
have a health lifestyle wen it comes to food
eat healthy & exercise


Hey, so I know that probably that a lot of girls say this on here, but I guess I'm gonna say it now. I'm 15, female. All my friends say I'm pretty, but I seriously don't think I am. My friends, I guess you could consider them "popular". I just don't talk to guys very much. And if I do, it's never like a serious talk, it's always joking around. I always see my friends having serious talkes with guys, and their like, best friends with them. I'm just not like that. I consider myself as kind of, socialy akward, maybe. Like, I have cute clothes, good hair, great friends, but those things aren't that important in life. I just feel like I'm never going to get a boyfriend. I've never had one before. My friends say I should just wait until college to have a bf, but sometimes I just don't want to do that. I'm not looking for sex or anything like that, I'm just looking for a nice, sweet guy. All the guys that always like me, aren't that good looking. And I know that's really bad of me to say, and that's not all I care about, trust me, but looks are something. I don't know what to do. Guys don't know anything about me. There's actually a lot that people don't know about me. Like I love the NHRA drag racing. I think that if people knew more about me, they might like me more, but no one really ever asks. And if I bring something like that up, it's just akward. So what should I do???? I feel like I'm not pretty or skinny enough. Like, I'm not super skinny, but I'm not super fat. And my confidence level is usually very low, if you couldn't already tell. What to do???? Thanks (link)
u gotta have self esteem !
well ur exactly were I'm at haha
I've just learnd to live w/o a boyf
not saying I don't want one but if the rite guy comes along then sure y not rite :D
but the guys before asking me out in all I just wasn't attactd to
its just how life is I guess


That definetly makes me feel better but what would like the shy guy to talk about with you? (link)
anything ! inside joke if u have any or anything that comes to mind
just b easy to talk to
even if its silent it doesn't have to b akward


14/f

so my best friend is going out with this guy that i absolutley despise with a hot fiery buring passion. she's 14, he's 17. red flag right there already, right? after like 2 or 3 weeks of dating, she had sex with him and gave him a blow job. i got so mad at her, you have no idea. the only thing i really cared about was the sex. she promised me that she would never do that again until she was older so i just kinda blew it off.

well, yesterday she was texting him from my phone. she forgot to delete the texts. i read all of them. she told him it wasn't a good time for her to have sex because she's on her period. and he said back so you want to? and she said of course i do. i saw those and i just wanted to cry.

she's not listening to any of her friends telling her not to do this. she doesn't care. she flat out lied to all of her friends. she doesn't realize or understand what she's doing or what she's doing to all of the people that love her and care about her. talking to her won't do anything, she doesn't listen to what anyone has to say about stuff like this. she's worrying everyone and no one knows what to do. i don't want my best friend being a whore and getting herself pregnant at age 14.

what am i supposed to do? (link)
that's how my friend is
I don't comment about it just listen
I mean she slready lost her virginity & + she can't remind time or nothing
just let her do her own this & advise her wen u think its necessary


Hello =] I just want to know.. if ther person you are with likes somebody else but loves you .. do you stay with them or finish them ? What would you do ? Thanks x x (link)
stay !
he can like lots of girls but love only u
he'll eventually gtletover these girls
if he loves u u should know that & never doubt


I am a 14 year old male. I just started my first day of high school on September 2nd. Today is September 5th. Schools been relatively good until today. What went wrong is that a bunch of girls wanted to talk to me. Some approached me and I talked to them. The others said hi as I passed and I didn't talk to them. When I talk to or get talked to by girls I get shy & nervous and I stutter and am really slow figuring out what to say. Please help me figure out what to do. Be Yourself doesn't help me, sorry. (link)
aww that's SuperCute no lie
I love it wen a guy is shy it wayy better than a concieded dude trust
but yea talk if u don't it might seem like ur avoiding them or something
justb really confident & eye contact works best ! :)




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