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Stay With Him ?
Hello =] I just want to know.. if ther person you are with likes somebody else but loves you .. do you stay with them or finish them ? What would you do ? Thanks x x
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stay !
he can like lots of girls but love only u
he'll eventually gtletover these girls
if he loves u u should know that & never doubt
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When you say 'like'... What exactly do you mean? Do you mean that they are just friends? Or that he or she is attracted to someone else?
In either case... I would say that you should be able to work it out. If their just friends, then you just may be paranoid... In which case you need to confront your own insecurity. If we're talking attraction... I'd like to remind you that just because you're in a relationship and love your partner doesn't mean that you're going to magically stop being attracted to other people. And it's okay to be attracted to other people, just so long as that attraction doesn't lead to potentially harmful behavior.
I think that... Whatever the scenario... You should talk to your partner and discuss you're feelings. If you're feeling insecure now would be the time to say so. Just try to remain calm and refrain from attacking your partner. Don't call them any nasty names, don't make any accusations without proof. Simply state how the situation makes you feel and ask them how they are feeling. Then the two of you need to decide what it is that you both need to do to find a resolution.
But if your partner has crossed the line into harmful behavior... Before discussing anything YOU need to reassess the relationship and decide whether you trust this person... And if you don't, whether or not the two of you are willing to set about the arduous task of rebuilding that trust. If the answers is 'no,' well... You know the answer.
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