This is pretty sad, but im more experienced with guys who date sluts. im not a slut.. but still haha. i take them and change them and make them want me. anyway, so finally im dating a normal guy. its like our fourth date and hes gonna kiss me next time. he said "a kiss" so i guess just one peck lol. whatever, im willing to go slow. but how's he gonna do it? he seems kinda shy. is he probably gonna turn his head and go in for a long peck? or keep his head straight and do a quick peck? gah i donno, any shy guys here..what would yall do? also. if he doesnt kiss me by the end of the night,should i just kiss him.
Which means overcoming the nervousness and apprehension is the only thing standing in the way.
If he can't overcome it, then yes of course you should kiss him. Afterwards have a talk about the fact that you dont mind and encourage him making moves, if he goes too far you'll let him know. Shy guys are great for this conversation, because theyre still too shy to actually go too far 95% of the time.
orphans answered Friday August 22 2008, 10:13 pm: He is probably nervous like none other, and are you more experienced than him when it comes to kissing and such? If yes, thats probably extreeemely intimidating to him!
I cant tell you how hes going to try to kiss you, because that is up to him. Id say youd probably know when it would happen, like you make eye contact and theres no talking/standing close, all that kinda stuff.
So if he doesnt kiss you by the end of the night, youve gotta. Just do it! Theres no fear of rejection; you already know he wants to
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schochie16 answered Friday August 22 2008, 8:33 pm: You can't plan this, neither can he. He's probally just as freaked as you. Just go with th flow and if kissing him at the end feels right to you then do it. When the time comes you will know. Trust me. Sorry f this sounds weird, re reading this it sounds corny hahaha. But you'll see that what i' saying is right when it happens..
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