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I'm Really Tight
Okay, so I don't have a boyfriend nor do I want one, but I want to lose my virginity anyway. Please, don't tell me wait until you're with the one that you love, because I really don't want to.
I don't have any guys that I'm hooking up with at the moment, but I was hooking up with two guys, let's call them N and C, the other night. They all left for basic training. I'm tired of highschool boys (I'm almost a senior in highschool) all of the ones that I know are too immature for me.
Anyway, six months from now one of the guys N (the guy that I really want to do) that I was hooking up is going to be back. I got the other guy C (who I like more as a friend) to give him my address, and we're going to meet up and try things again. I really want to have sex with N, but... I'm really tight.
I know this because C couldn't get it in. Any ideas for becoming a little bit looser? That way, I won't have any problems in the future?
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Since apparently you aren't going to listen to anyone telling you that it's a bad idea to lose your virginity on a one night stand, i'll skip the whole lecture; But do remember to use condoms please. You have no clue where those penises have been.
Though I do think you will regret this decision hugely one day..
Every virgin is "tight" in a sense. There is really no way of changing that until you have sex. Though masturbating may help you get used to having at least something up there. Make sure when you have sex that you are well lubricated, and that should make the penis slide in easier.
FYI: When you are on your period, the penis should actually slip in easier. I'm not sure why it didn't go in with C, but it was probably because he wasn't erect enough. It takes practice before it finally goes in. But if I were you, take it as a sign and save your virginity for someone who cares about you.
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i wouldnt really reccomend
doing that while on your
period...but dats up to you
anyways try using lots of
lubrication....or a well lubricated
condom...&& since its ur first
time with it going in fully its
gonna hurt but after maybe ur first
2 times you wont have to worry about
it hurting
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Try getting experience fingering yourself and stuff. And don't necessarily worry about being tight, just make sure you're pretty wet.
Make sure you use a lubricated condom and pounds of extra lube.
Either way it will hurt, but you'll be fine =]
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well to get looser, the only thing you can do is really masturbate more.. and when you do have sex try using a lot of lube, and it will probably hurt but it will get a lot better the more you do it..
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