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to date or not to date???
17/f
ok see i have this friend chris, we dated for like a month about two yrs ago, then i broke up with him, and lately we've become friends again, and he still likes me. and for a while ive sort of started to have feelings for him but im not really sure b/c wen i picture kissing him, i cant hold back the grimance...and another bad thing is it's not just him, if i think about kissing any GUY i just get all disgusted(fyi im bisexual)...
is it possible that im becoming a lezbo? not that i mind at all, if i am, well i'll be ok with it......
last week chris asked me out and i told him that i just needed time to fully make up my ind about how i feel about him , adn he was ok with it since he's already been waiting for almost 2yrs...
would it be wrong to go out with him if i wudn't feel comfortable kissing him?
or do ya think that if i stay with him long enough i'll get used to the idea???
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Could be that you just aren't attracted to him... Here's what I used to do back when I still dated... If I met a guy and didn't feel an attraction right away, I'd still give him a chance. Typically, I'd go out on about three dates. If, by the end of the third date, the chemistry still wasn't there... Well... 'Bye-bye.' I know that it may sound really mean to think that way... But I think that if you are dating someone that you just aren't attracted to... That's unfair both to them and to you. Just because you aren't attracted doesn't mean that no one else will be... And he should have that chance to find, and be with, someone that reciprocates his feelings. And why three dates? Because, typically, by the third date most people start to expect a kiss. And typically, if you aren't attracted by the third date... You're not going to be attracted in three months either.
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i think you should give him a shot and see how you feel dating him and kissing him if your don't like him you can break up with him and you might know if your a lezbo of not. it's worth a shout at good match and you might find out if your a complete lezbo. Plus you'll know how you really feel about him.
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