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Should I let him in?
Before this summer started I really liked this guy named Matty. Matty had told me he liked me to and we went to a party together and I was really excited because I couldn't wait to see him. We were together all day/night but after a few drinks I didn't know if he was all there, he kissed me, and I was really happy and kissed him back. When he sobered up he acted like nothing had happened and before I left the party he came clean adn said he just wanted to be friends because we lived too far away. It killed me.
A month or so has passed and we still talk all the time. I find out he still likes me (he doesnt know i know) and I still like him but I don't want to admit it. He talked to one of my close friends about how horrible he felt that he hurt me and how it wouldnt want to do it again and such. Now i dont know what to do? Im hanging out with him in a couple days but im kind of afraid. I really like him but I dont want to get hurt again. How do i know Matty won't do this to me again?
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Hun, you'll never know if Matty will hurt you again or not. It's human behaviour and you can't predict such a thing. But to win in life, is to be unafraid of life's failures. So hold up your head and dive in. You'll learn from any mistakes, learn more, if you succeed. You've got nothing to lose in the long term. relationships take practice, so don't hide and gently confront him. Announce that you like him FIRST and ask if he feels anything.
But do give him credit for being honest about living too far. talk to him, and remember to smile and hold eye contact, to show you care for him. All the best!
Fruitloop highschooler
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well it sounds like you have to options.. take the chance of being hurt, or don't and day dream of what could have been.. i say take the chance you only live once and there are many fish in the sea if he ends up hurting you again, forget about him in that kinda way just be friends but it sounds like his feelings for you have become more then just friends so just try it the worst that will happen is he will say i just want to be friends, no biggie just blow it over
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I was in a similar situation as you actually,This guy and i liked each other for a few months and finally kissed....but when he was drunk.Later that night he texted me saying that he didn't want a relationship,he just liked to "have fun" which killed me,he liked me for all the wrong reasons.Seeing that matty said "to stay friends and you lived far away" sounds too me like one of his excuses which really means that he dosen't want anything serious.Which i've heard exucses like that one too many times before.So i would advise you too just watch yourself when you hang out with him,he could just be wanting too "have some fun".If it seems like what he's telling you seems rehearsed or too "cheasy" then i would forget about him,there's going to be plenty of more fish in the sea,there's alot of other great guys out there trust me :D
♥ danielle
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