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Severe pain during sex. Not my first time! :-( Help?


Question Posted Wednesday August 13 2008, 2:31 pm

It hurts when I have sex, and sometimes I don't even enjoy it. I CRIED ONCE BECAUSE IT HURT SO BAD. I feel horrible for not being able to let guys enjoy it as much beacuse I'm in pain. What should I do?

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Comrade answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 7:15 pm:
In my experience, a girl is more likely to feel pain during sex if she feels nervous or is stressing out about something. If this sounds like you, it may help if you relaxed a bit before having sex.

If that doesn't work, have your partner start real slow and shallow and work his way faster and deeper, and see where the pain starts.

Like younggrandma said, sex isn't supposed to hurt. If all else fails, see a doctor.

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karenR answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 2:42 pm:
Try using a lubricant. Safe to use lubricants
can be found in Walmart and other stores like
it right there in condom aisle.

If that doesn't help, or you've already tried
that, see a doctor. Sex shouldn't hurt. If it
does then something isn't right.

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pinkomlette answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 2:41 pm:
This happens to me occasionally, it could be that your boyfriend is hitting your cervix when he penetrates. Try to get him to enter from different angles, or use shallower thrusts.

If nothing else works, i'd go see a doctor.

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