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the special girl
I am 14 years old and will be a freshman in highschool.
Every year I help at my church in my brothers class and there is this girl that also helpsthat I have known for a while now. I know her pretty well. She is beautiful, I like who I am and all that but when I look at her I feel funny. I say things I wouldnt normally say and tell her things that I think would impress her. I feel like I am not good enough for her. I am not very big or strong I weigh 94 pounds. The only thing is she thinks I am funny. I just don't know how to tell her I like her without emmbarrasing myself. I have never had a real girlfriend everytime I have asked its been rejection. I don't want it to happen again. What do I say so I at least have a chance.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
My friend Laura would give you this advice when it comes to wondering if she likes you:
I'm going to start off by saying this: if a girl smiles A LOT when she's around you, she probably likes you as more than a friend.
The Top 5 other things to look for:
1. She laughs at your jokes.
- No matter how many times she's heard them, or how totally lame they are, she'll laugh at them. End of story.
2. She touches you (not sexually, get your head outta the gutter!)
- She plays with your hair, or fixes your shirt or something. Maybe she even holds your hand, that's a pretty good sign that she likes you.
3. She includes you in things.
- She talks to you even when she's with her friends. She makes an effort to include you, like by asking you things. Even lame questions like, 'What color should I paint my nails?' might be her way of trying to include you.
4. She makes an effort to talk to you/see you.
- She texts you just to say hello, she's late to class just because she wanted to hug you good bye, or she calls you just to see what you're doing.
5. She trusts you, and talks to you seriously.
- She tells you things that she might not normally tell others. Like, if she's in a bad mood and tells others she's fine, she'll actually tell you that she failed that geometry test, or her friends aren't including her lately. She opens up to you and isn't afraid to be herself.
Even though every girl is different, these are the top 5 things girls do when they like a guy. So, chances are, if she's holding your hand and texting you saying :" Hey whatcha up to? :)", chances are she's doing it all for a reason.
And I would say that if you want to ask her out, just BE YOURSELF. You said she thinks you're funny, well play on that, without distorting your personality in the process. Ask her if maybe she wants to go see a movie or something. Starting off by blatantly asking her out might scare her away.
On this page there are some flirting tips you might find useful:
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Thanks for inboxing ;]
--Jack
(16/m)
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