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made a move..now what
so i hung out with this guy i like a few days ago. we went for a walk by ourselves and he put his arm around me and we basically stayed with each other the whole night. i know he likes me alot. but the thing i don't understand is how come he didn't kiss me? it seems like with all my friends, they meet a guy a day, then the second or third time they hang out they're already like making out and stuff...is there a reason why hes moving so slow?
14/f
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Hey there, remember that Rome wasn't built in a day. What I mean is that he probably doesn't want to rush things. I'd say that's a pretty good sign that he wants this to work out. It's not that he doesn't like you; from what you've said, it seems like he does like you a lot- enough to not rush into anything. I think that he probably does want to kiss you, but he might be worried that you're not okay with it. He's also probably nervous. Give it a little time- there's no rule that says you have to make out with a guy within a few times of hanging out.
I personally don't think he's moving that slow; I think he's trying to respect you and your boundaries, which is really good.
Don't worry about it- keep hanging out with him and see where it goes. Good luck!
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All guys are different. Maybe he thought that he would be moving too fast or that you weren't ready, or sometimes the case is he might not be ready. So I suggest you give him some signs and maybe he might get the hint. Good luck!
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maybe he felt like you didn't want it, or you want to take it slow.
next time you two hangout try showing hints you want to kiss, and he should take it from there. :)
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