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when should i?
ok I'm really good friends with this girl and she went out with this guy for a year and like 2 weeks ago they broke up but I didn't find out until yesterday my friends say it just happened well I've liked her for a while and I want to take our friendship to the next level she's showed feelings towards me before they broke up but how long should I wait to start 'talking'
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I think you should wait a little longer. Its pretty soon especially if she dated this guy for a year. You should hang out with her more and you guys can become more closer. Then you can probably tell when she is over this guy and might be looking for a new one. But of course I don't know this girl and it might take her awhile to be ok or it might just happen like that. I still say you should wait a little bit. I hope everything works out for you!
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If she dated the guy for a year you need to give her more time...
I think if you hang out with her a lot and talk to her a lot you yourself will see when the time is right because once she's ready to be in another relationship she'll change. I can't really give you a time frame though because every girl is different and it depends on the situation.
Right now I'm sure she's pretty bummed though and it's still all kind of fresh, unless she bounces back quicker than most but, it usually will take a girl a little bit...
I know for any friends I've ever had and even my own experience people would always say that right after it happened I was bummed and needed time to recover from it and when I was ready to date again that bummed kind of feeling didn't show anymore...
It's not extremely noticable I think but, if you know her well enough then I think you'll see it...
Just be there for her right now don't think about your feelings for her, really care about what she's going through at the moment before you move in on her like that. =)
Good luck though when she is ready and I hope this helps a little. =)
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