ok i am here to vent about my personal frustration. i am frustrated over about what my mom told me about people at her work that disrespects her. and it makes her go crazy and it is affecting our relationship. right now i think those people must be really crazy to tick her off like that. she said she cant really move into a different job yet though. so what can i really do. ok on this one i want adult advicenators to answer as well.
There is a huge difference between, say, playfully criticing her, belittling her, or disrespecting her religion or race... each of those issues would require a very different response.
I will tell you this though, this is a grown up problem. It's not one you can solve for her or correct. The best thing you can do is listen and support her plans for dealing with it. You don't know or understand all the pressures she has to face, it's best if you don't try to pretend you do. What your mother will apperciate most from you, even more then you advice, is just a place to go and vent her personal frustration. I bet if she feels free to talk about the troubles at work, the stress wont effect your relationship quite as much. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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