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what i wanted to ask was how do i deal with it now that he had seemed to turn things around and made to be like i am the bad person. the reason i think that was because when i interrupted them talking he looked at me in a scary way. my reaction was i didn't say anything bad but i did what you told me to ignore those kinds of things. and i feel like i just need extra help on that.
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Thank you very much for the links, that helps enormously!
DON'T READ SO MUCH INTO THIS.
So, he gave you a nasty look. That is very immature of him.
If the best thing he could come up with was a dirty look, that is great! That means you trying to be mature has already had an effect on him.
Now, you have to have a thicker skin, and skick to your plan of behaving yourself and being respectful, because he is going to try more things, to try and get you to respond badly.
Remember, he doesn't get to feel good about himself, until you do something wrong. So yes, he is going to try and turn this around on you. He is going to try really hard, to make you look bad, because if you don't, he will have to face the fact that he behaving like a turd.
So, take a deep breath and remind yourself that he can glare at you all day long if he wants too, it doesn't matter. You, are more mature then that. You can choose to communicate, clearly and respectfully. Apparently, he can't. Don't try to respond to or geuss what might be happening. A mature person doesn't make assumptions, they dicuss thing when someone brings them to thier attention in a respectful way.
Just stay strong. His behavoir will get worse before it gets better, but if you can withstand it, you'll be a stronger and smarter person, and he'll know it.
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