Lately my b.f has been taking me for granted. Losing the little things he used to do for me when we first started dating. I just came back from being away for 2 weeks and i got sick on return. Instead of calling me to see how he was i called him and he was busy with his friends and showed no true affection. Naturally i got mad and burst on him that night telling him that i felt i was being taken for granted and unloved sometimes. Now my mom isnt that happy with him because hes not making me happy. I love him so much and he promised me it would change but what should i do about my parents and him? its important for me for them to like him. I love him and knows hes been busy this summer working for school but i just want some more time from him so we can have a summer like last. Thanks in advance and any advice on any of this would be helpful. By the way im 20 and so is he and we've dating for a little over a year
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? HEALER answered Friday August 1 2008, 2:36 am: You seem to have come into a problem most boyfriend and girlfrend and even married couples have, however this is one to the things that will sooner or later you will find out if he is being busy with work or with another girl, it's better to find out sooner then later how serious is he with you're relationship, i am not trying to put you're relationship down the the thing is you're feeling unsecure with you're boyfriend and asking for somekind of support that would help in this problem, about you're parents you have to understand you're the one that will carry the load not them, so look into whats happening find out so you can find releave or hoping not the end of a realationship. Good luck.
stargirl51 answered Thursday July 31 2008, 5:30 pm: If it's been over a year and the romance and affection has diminished that much, he could just have lost interest in you. It makes sense that your parents don't like him and chances are, they never really will.
Best advice is just to not buy into his promises of it getting better. Because if he's like that when you arrive home, chances are that not much (if anything) is gonna change.
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