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i dont want to get a job
im a graduated seinor moving on to a college. i got a job, a good job paying 10 dallors an hour. im supose to start on wensday. now all i can think is im going to be working till 11 at night and starting classes at like 6 in the morning if not earlier, i have to go full time or i dont get any money to pay for it, then i have to go to work full time. i have really bad anxiety and stress problems and i do not want to take pills for it, my boy friend was always there to help me with it, which worked for a really long time, now i wont have any time for that or even to study... if i dont work i cant drive to the college. but i need school.. i dont know what to do or how im going to manage my time. i was always full time high school and college courses, but i cant study at work, i dotn want to fail college. i have to be able to transfer to a four year university. what do i do what should be my priorities? am i going to fall apart and lose everything? i just need soem adivce and help. thanks in advance
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First off, take your medication.
Seriously. I took mine; it made things bearable when I thought they wouldn't be. If your medication has unpleasant side-effects or otherwise isn’t working for you, go back to your doctor and ask them for a different type. There are dozens. Try them on like shoes until you find one that fits.
I have anxiety and I would be dead, six feet under the ground DEAD, if it weren't for my medication.
If you truly wish to succeed that is one, very easy, way to help yourself. Take your medication as directed. Don’t self-sabotage.
PANIC creates more PANIC. So stop panicking. Do whatever it takes to calm yourself down. Take deep, long breaths. Take a long bath. Take a nap. Drink tea… whatever does it for you. Then sit down with your work calendar and your school calendar and start to figure it out. If you can’t figure it out, enlist the help of someone you trust to help you work through your stress and really get this shit down on paper.
Or even better, go to a counselor at your college and enlist their help. They can be phenomenally helpful in teaching you to balance this stress and sometimes, in assisting you with dealing with.
I promise you, if you sit around and stress about this, it will only get worse. If you tell yourself that it is impossible to do and you are going to fail, then you are going to fail. If you can’t find the solution yourself, find someone who can help you talk through it.
And for Christ’s sake, give your medication a fair try. It can save lives. It can make lives worth living. It’s part of being responsible. Accept it. Try it.
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ok so thats a long day.
i know this sounds weird but
you should try caddying at a golfcourse
its like a couple hours a day.
and my bro does it and he comes home with like 200 bucks each day. its sweett
idk if thats gonna help i doubt it.
just thought id suggest it
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