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not talking
so there is this guy and we met in like november. we talked until like january. thats a long story. but we didnt talk at all until about a week ago i said i was sorry fo rbeing a jerk cause i had just stopped talkig to him. he was cool with it and stuff and we talked for 3 days and on the 3rd day i told him i think were going a little to fast, i mean we went from not talking at all to flirting and him saying he wants to shower with me... weird but he was like haha ok i understand. so i thought we were cool but now he doesnt answer my texts ive sent probably like 4 in the past 2 days and no answer. he didnt im me yesterday and today he did but its not a real conversation, we kinda like die out and dont have anything to talk about. idk why and im not good at conversations when i have to think of everything to say! he normally is very talkative! but not anymore. i like him but not if hes boring like this, i want the guy i was talking to the other day when we were all flirty and stuff
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Well, I suggest you tell him that you HAD feelings for him and now they are fading because he has turned into someone else, and you don't mind him being all flirty and stuff again. I think the reason he backed down and is acting like another person is because you told him you guys were moving too fast and so he decided to just slow things, slow things to the point where it is just dead. So tell him how you feel and see what comes out of it. He may change and everything may be alright again, the guy you liked may come back!
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This is rather simple: You shut him down. He feels defeated. And therefore doesn't feel a need to talk with you anymore.
Kinda common for the type of guys I call "vultures." They play the part of the nice guy or whatever, then use that closeness to swoop in for the kill. Then when you shut them down, they say it's ok when really they aren't ok and go try their tricks on another person.
Best thing to do is to just drop him. Most likely, he'd rather get in your pants than in your head.
cheers,
stargirl
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