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Did I pop my cherry?
13-F
I'm gonna be 14 in a few days. I usually masturbate during my showers. I refuse to do other wise. But 2 showers ago I wanted to try something a bit bigger then what I use [I use the handle of my razor] This was a rounded containor onject about the size of the micro-phone from mario party 7 [I hope some people know what im talking about] anyway, it was in a bit and it didnt seem like it wa gonna go anymore. I pushed in lightly just once more time to test it and I had the slightest feeling of a tiny rip and it could go in
Did I pop my cherry?
No blood came out
It didnt hurt
I really wanted to save that for when I find someone I love enough to actually have sex with
How can I tell if I did pop my cherry?
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Hymen's don't actually pop. They stretch. They can be stretched without you noticing especially if you are athletic and do rigorous sports or use tampons. Masturbation can do it as well as penetration.
Just because it stretched doesn't mean you aren't a virgin or won't be viewed as one by your partner. It's more common for the hymen to have been stretched by tampon usage etc.
You have to be careful about the objects you use. This wasn't meant for this purpose and you forced it. You probably cut or scrapped inside the vaginal wall or caused a tear as it's extremely sensitive. It will heal but be sure if you ever use objects that they are meant for this purpose, have no jagged edges, can't get stuck or lost and aren't something you force.
I'm not sure your hymen stretched as usually (from what I've learned) it's accompanied by light blood and or spotting. That didn't happen which leads me to believe you scrapped or tore something internal. Depending on the individual it may not be noticeable or hurt necessarily.
You're fine but are wiser knowing that it's not a good idea to use objects not meant for this especially if they must be forced, aren't clean or rough and jagged.
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You might've bumped up against the hymen.
Blood is the usual accompaniment of when it's broken. Along with a varying amount of pain.
cheers,
stargirl
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You'll know when you've popped your cherry because you will bleed, or atleast be spotting a little bit.
& Yes, it does hurt.
Because your actually breaking through a layer of skin.
Hope This Helps.
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the best advice i can give? grab a mirror and analyze yourself down there.. if you want to see what the hymen looks like (the cherry thats popped) this maybe can help? [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
hope i helped and good luck mama
flirty :)
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