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I want to be more then "Best friends"
alright. i like my best friend tom. but tom likes my girl best friend lizzie. he liked lizzie for a while like a few mounths. but lizzie likes tom just a little. my friend jacob asked tom if he would ever go out with me. and tom said no because we are best friends. but i dint think he knows i like him, because i was inlove with this boy josh, not anymore. cuz hes in highschool. so how to i get tom to like me? and we got a real lot in common.. please help!!! i really like tom <3
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this is tough...
okay since you guys have alot in common you should hag out and do that......example...if you guys like soccer(or any other contact sport) then play somewhere together and flirt with him!!
first little then when you thinkits okay alot....but not to dramatic....
as for lizzie you need to let him see that you can be much much funner!!!
try to hold his hand if thats okay....maybe try to go see a scary movie and that will give you an excuse to get "close"!
guys like to talk....believe it or not they have stuff on their minds just like us girls....since you're best friends it should be easy for him to open up to you...so let him tell you what on his mind....boys love it when girls will listen instead of talking about them selves!!
okay now most improtant....if you rreally like him and wanna be more than bffs!! your gonna have to tell him..if he dosent feel the same way than thats okay.......but dont just tell him right now wait until you think he can already guess that you do.
hope i helped..
<3 ally
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Don't have your friends talk to him, because that will make you look like you can't talk to him by yourself. Tell him you DO like him as more than a friend, but if he wants to stay friends, you're just going to have to respect that. Which I know that sucks, but you can't really do anything about it.
If you're not ready to talk to him at first try taking it slow and hinting it to him before you talk to him.
good luck and i hope i helped. let me know.
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