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beep beep
sry i didnt know under what category to put this :S
and i know this is a weird question but i've been wondering.
but i wa sjust wondering that when a pretty girl walks down the street the guys in the cars look right? ok so when I personally walk down the street they DO look at me as well. pretty much every single one. but then there is the beeping thing. do they beep at girls who are good looking or at girls who look like they're ready to do stuff and look kinda slutty.
cos i actually thought they would NOT beep at girls who look extreamly good and confident and like they have 'high standarts' if you know what i mean.
cos as i said they do look at me but i dont get beeped at often. all in all i only got beeped at 5 times or smth. [in about a year :S]
and i guess i look more like a girl who wouldnt exactly be happy about getting beeped at.
sorry i dont wanna offend you and say that you look slutty if you get beeped at though. [but think about it, do you wear minnie skirts etc? that doesnt mean youre slutty but you show SKIN]
but is it true that they're more likely to beep at a slutty girl then a confident/pretty looking girl cos they might have more respect?
sorry this might be the weirdest question ever i realise that myself so dont tell me I have issues :S
thank youu xxx
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I've got to say, I think it has far more to do with the guys then it has to do with the girl.
I've seen honking at thirteen year olds, at girls dressed in sweatpants and girls dressed in miniskirts. The only general rule I can come up with is that guys engage in this behavior when they are feeling powerful, especially when there are two or more of them in the car.
So I doubt that girls who look more confident can avoid it. The guys feel confident because they are in a group, and are less likely to be intimidated.
I used to try and figure out what would help me avoid honking, commands from strange men to ‘Smile’, or comments like ‘You’re a sexy lady’ on the streets (nothing like a bit of objectification first thing in the morning), but all I have managed to learn is that is doesn’t matter what I wear or how I walk or what I’m saying. By virtue of being a reasonably attractive young female, especially if I am walking alone, I just have to deal with these rude, boorish and sometimes frightening comments.
Maybe the girls who dress for the attention get the comments more, but I know sheer confidence won’t dissuade them and I doubt the even the most beautiful girls can rely on intimation to avoid it either.
It just has nothing to do with the woman. That is why it isn't really a compliment. It’s all about the crap going on in the guy’s head. Unless they see as you as totally sexless, every young woman will have the pleasure of dealing with this sometimes.
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My personal opinion is that the guys are beeping to show their appreciation of a pretty girl in sexy looking clothes. I doubt if they are thinking about how slutty they are but just how much they have brightened up that moment for them.
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