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pregnant?


Question Posted Friday July 18 2008, 8:38 pm

I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but it wasnt long. not even 5 minutes because i pushed him off of me. It has been three weeks and my stomach has been kind of cramping, my boobs are sore, and feel swollen. I am due for my period soon..could this just be PMS symptoms? I also took two pregnancy tests, a week apart and they were both negative..so what could it be?

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amber_x answered Sunday July 20 2008, 6:14 pm:
even in those five minutes you two we're having sex, he could've got off in you or had pre-cum.
guys usually don't know when pre-cum comes out, or when it's going to. i'm currently 21 weeks
pregnant at the moment. my stomach cramps a lot now that i'm in my second trimester. i think
you need to wait to see if you miss your period, then take a pregnancy test or go to the doctor
where they can give you a free one, =) taking tests to early, can cause an inaccurate result.

hope this helps.

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BrokenWings answered Saturday July 19 2008, 7:35 am:
Pregnancy tests don't show anything until about a month after sex, Its a waste of money to take them beforehand cos they dont show anything even if you are pregnant.

There is a possibility you could be pregnant, Especially if you don't usually get psm, these symptoms could point towards pregnancy,

However, Don't worry yourself about it for the moment, theres nothing you can do about it until you get or don't get your period. If you get your period, you're probably fine. If you don't, take another pregnancy test.

Next time you have sex, for however long, always use a condom or be on birth control. If you don't know your boyfriends sexual history, have yourself checked for sti's too.

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xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Saturday July 19 2008, 5:04 am:
I dont know how old you are, or whether you and your boyfriend are even ready to consider pregnancy possibilities, so if my advice isnt even close to your circumstance then apologies.

First of all, you said you 'pushed' your boyfriend off of you. From how i read it, im a bit worried if you actually wanted to have sex, or if you just became unaroused and didnt want him on you anymore. Anytime you feel you dont want to have sex then say no, its completely fine and normal.

If you are at a point in your life where you do not want to be pregnant then dont have unprotected sex at all. Sometimes guys say they like it better without a condom but unless you two are comfortable with each other, you trust each other, and your willing to accept the consequences such as a pregnancy or an STD then its not worth taking that chance.

Okay, now that thats out of the way, im assuming he didnt ejaculate in you because you pushed him off but pre-cum can impregnate you so the possibility is there.

Cramping, bloatedness/swollennes and sore breasts are common PMS symptons and the fact that you've had two pregnancy tests that both came out negative which narrows the possibility of a pregnancy. Dont be worried it's almost certain that your not pregnant but if your still uncertain then see your doctor and he/she will tell you if you are or not.

Sorry if most of that didnt apply to you.

xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx

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karenR answered Friday July 18 2008, 11:46 pm:
Probably is PMS. Same symptoms. You probably
are not pregnant if you've had two negative
test results.

I do want to tell you that "time in" does NOT
matter. Do not even fall for the "let me put it
in for just a minute routine." One little sperm
finding its way to an egg is all it takes!

If he wants (and you to,of course) anywhere near
your vagina. He MUST be wearing a condom. Guys
can't get pregnant so they don't always quite
understand the risk. Protect yourself. :)

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