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how come he's talking to me lesser and lesser?
Whats going on?
ok me and this guy started talking 2 weeks ago, we started talking on aim and on the phone, we would talk to eachother for 6 hours a day on aim and we would sleep in 5am i kinda had a crush on him he's funny and nice. and we were flirty too in a way, and one day we were sharing secrets all the time and he said tell me something that i dont know and i said umm im a natural flirt and he was all haha i knew it and he became a little quiet and he began to talk again, and next day he was okay but he becoming quiet again and he signed off at 2am but he usually stay on till 5am and the next day again he texted me saying "wheres my lunch? haha im at mcdonalds" cause we bet on it and then after that he didnt talk to me on aim like he ALWAYS do cause he always im me right when i get on but now he wont anymore is there something wrong? whats going on?
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He could be losing intrest, you know like, doing the same thing over and over. Like you said, he always IM's you and you talk from this time to that time. And I know what you mean exactly. Maybe you could shake it up a little bit. By first asking him something like "Are you mad at me?" and he'll probobly say "No, why?" then you could say "Well, it just seems like your avoiding me a little or something, I just noticed that and I was wondering why you don't talk to me like before and stuff." Don't make it too "All up in his face" but Don't make it like easy for him to tell you nothing is that matter, becuase you so have the right to know. I know it's hard to ask guys things like this, some girls think they'll get mad at them and never talk to them again. But trust me, most guys aren't that heartless. And maybe if you guys get back to normal, you could bring up hanging out in person and going to the mall or something else you guys have in common? Just an idea! Make things a little less, re-played. If that makes sense. Well I hope something works out! And that I sparked something, if not I hope you get really great advice! :D
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All you need to do is ask him. I DON'T think he's losing interest in you. I just think that not everyone can stay up until 5 am every night. Maybe he's just getting more comfortable with being your friend and doesn't feel the need to jump all over you anymore. Regardless of the reason, I think the best thing you can do is tell him you miss your long chats. Tell him what you are feeling.
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To put it simply, he's losing interest.
I just had this happen to me too, over a longer period of time, and I understand where you're coming from.
It's hard to overcome rejection, that's what I'm trying to do right now, but it truly seems like he's losing interest in you and there's nothing you can do about it. You can't force someone to love you or want to talk to you.
As hard as it is, I have been waiting for him to IM me and call me (he hasn't yet.) It may take a long time but I'm going to wait until he wants to talk to me again. It's hard at first but I suggest that for you too.
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