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torn between the 2
I met this guy when i was 14 ... and i lost my virginity to him. We lasted almost 3 years, but as time went on things went sour. We argued alot, and i did some bad things. Now i'm talking to this guy again, i must admit i was truly in love with him. And i still think about him time to time, the feeling i get is undescribable. Anyways, i broke up with him because i (thought) i lost my feelings for him, but after a couple months ... i noticed i just wasn't happy nomatter who i was dating at the time. I recently met this guy, he just got out of prison not to long ago. Right from the get go he said he loved me. And he wanted a relationship and so on. Need i remind you he doesn't have a car, he JUST got a job, and we argue over the littlest things, and i'm being honest when i say i don't start the arguments. He gets mad when i even look at a guy, and most the time makes a big deal out of it. He also asks me "why" i put on makeup which isn't very often. Hes so scared hes gunna loose me to someone else, and he talks about my exs more than i do. I really want things to work with us, but i miss my ex too :/ Me and this guy argue so much, even more than my ex did. And i'm doing everything to just have a healthy relationship. He also doesnt let me talk to anyone on the phone, and he knows that i don't talk to anyone yet he still asks me "who'd you talk to today" when he comes home. This guy is also 23. He told me he didnt have a kid, but i recently "heard" this girl (heather) had a baby and has pictures of him on her myspace... that by the way i have not yet seen. I'm torn between the two. Please help me in any way shape or form
x - thuglove
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This new guy sounds very overprotective and he obviously doesn't trust you like he should. He seems like trouble, if you want my honest opinion. If he hasn't honestly told you if he has a child or not, then you shouldn't pressure him but you still shouldn't let it go. You are probably going through a time in your life where dating isn't the right thing for you. Maybe you should split from dating for a while, and then, when you feel like dating again you should start again. I am sorry if that is a bit patchy. Thanks!
PS. Overprotectivness always ends in disaster!
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This new guy sounds a bit sketchy, to be honest. It sounds like he isn't always truthful with you. If you are going to stay with him, I suggest you keep honesty as the focal point of your efforts within the relationship. You guys really need to be more open with each other.
As far as your ex goes, if you want to be with him, why not? Have you talked to him about it? Find out if he feels the same way.
Good luck with whoever you pick.
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