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i dont understand boys!!\


Question Posted Friday July 18 2008, 4:40 am

isnt it good when a guy youve been talking to lately is always keeping it real?


but where is line that he crosses when you know it will never be the two of you because he's too much.. of a real guy.. like you know if your talking to someone you like and likes you back dontchu think that sometimes its good to lie for good because YOU WANNA TRY TO COME OFF AS A GOOD GUY OR ADORABLE ETC, you get my point.. but what if.. this guy starts to say i gotta go poo or like something like that.. hes being "too real" and that means youll never be together coz he doesnt even bother making up an excuse for his "i gotta go" moment like why cant the guy just be like "i gotta go wash the dishes" or something like dat





so my question is

IF A GUY ACTS LIKE THAT, DOES IT MEAN THAT HE DOESNT LIKE YOU?

or he does but he's just really like that.. [but dont peole wanna come off as like a good person or humble??]


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erloisse13 answered Friday July 18 2008, 12:45 pm:
That may just be the way he is.
It's true that he is obviously getting more comfortable if he's saying things like that, it may actually even mean he does like you, he may be trying to make you laugh.
If not, he may just be the type who sees nothing wrong in that, and it may have no reflection on his feelings for you.
There are other ways to tell, but I don't think that specific point can tell you how he feels.

Good Luck
Elise 15/f

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scootermclisle answered Friday July 18 2008, 11:53 am:
I don't think it is any indication of his feelings for you as a girl. All that it means is that he is feeling more comfortable around you. When someone gets comfortable, their true self starts to shine through. For example, I would never tell someone I needed to go for a number two no matter how close we were, regardless of if I had romantic feelings for them or not. However, I'm not shy to tell my boyfriend if I need to go for a number one, and my feelings for him are through the roof. When someone gets comfortable, they say what they are thinking, short of talking in a way that THEY deem inappropriate. This has nothing to do with his opinion of you, it's just his personality. He thinks talking about that stuff is okay.

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