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cheerleading
13/f
im an upcoming freshman going onto the varsity cheerleading team. and i absolutly love it!
i love the girls and everything. but they have a reputation i guess and i dont see it in all of them. but even the ones that do have a "whore" reputation are great people.
it doesnt really btoher me what people say but this did
my really great friend, he said well i really hope ur not known as a hoe in highskool beacuse i dont want that happening to you. and i dont think i will become that but i just HATE how people judge girls by what they hear.
i dont know is there anyone who can make me feel better about this?
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My sister is a cheerleader and she isn't a whore. Yes, some of them are, but they give a bad name to cheerleaders.
If anyone calls you a whore, stand up to them. Tell them that generalizing about someone just because they are a cheerleader is wrong. It's just stupid. If they laugh and call you a whore again, shrug it off and don't let it affect you. When you show people that their nasty words hurt you, they'll keep doing it, I promise you that. But, if you show them that they don't affect you, they'll stop.
Who cares what they think anyway? As long as you know you're not a whore, that's all that matters =].
--Jack
(16/m)
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well the only way really to clear that is to reach out to other people, not only your varsity team, let others know you. Also if anyone ever calls you a "whore" or anything just think that they dont really know you there just judging you by what you do and who your friends are, which is wrong and kind of immature. Try not to let other people get to your head, and try to reach out to others so they know who you are, which can clear the rep for you and your friends =]
hope i helped
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