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Annoyed by my best friend
Okay...so all of a sudden, i've become annoyed by every single thing that my best friend does. she's seriously the best friend i could ask for, she's honestly such a good person and just a sweetheart... but lately, she's just been getting on my nerves. we've been friends for years and i don't know what the hell has come over me. its not anything she does..its just her in general. her personality, the way she talks, the things she say are all driving me crazy. i feel so much anger and frustration towards her... and now shes just torn apart because she can tell i'm pissed and she has no clue why. she actually started crying the other day because she feels how distant i've suddenly become from her. what the hell is wrong with me?!?! every idea she has, i shoot down. everything she says i prove wrong.
i guess the main problem i have with her is that she just never uses her brain and does/says all these dumb things, and i've always thought it was funny all these years and now i'm just seriously pissed off and annoyed can't even stand looking at her anymore.
if it was any other problem, i could talk to her, i have no problem telling her when i'm mad at her, we're very very close and very open with each other. but how the hell do you tell someone you're mad at them because of who they are???? because they don't ever use their brain????? has anyone else ever felt this way, and do you think it will go away or will it just get worse? because it's been going on for about 2 months and now it's just gotten horrible and i can't even take being in her presence. is there any hope for our friendship???
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i know exactly how you feel
if i was in this situation i would just not be around her as much as you normally are now. if you guys are around eachother alot then it makes you tired of eachother. and it feels like you guys are coming apart. i would just say to talk to alot of people and not exclude her totally but still not be with her as much.
hope i helped a little!
`mrs. carter
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Ha ha I know exactly how you feel, trust me it's completely normal :) I go through the same thing with my best friend. It's like, they annoy you but you are still friends with them. What I usually do is just talk to her and explain that I need a break. She always understands because when we start hanging out again, our friendship is stronger. I don't understand it but hey, it works wonders for the friendship :D goodluck!
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