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Don't know what to do...
18/m I've never had a girlfriend before,
And I've been hangin out with this girl basically twice a week for 2 months, and I really like her, and she likes me (we talked about us a few weeks ago).
But where do we go from here?
Do I ask her out? We've been going to the movies, the park, and some of her active interests, but they weren't really dates, I guess.
We've cuddled a few times, but should I kiss her yet?
Help me out!
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Yes you should ask her out! If you like each other, why NOT ask her out? But I agree with Jack, don't rush into kissing. Make sure you're both ready and comfortable before taking it to that level ;]
-Laura. (16-f)
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Yes yes! I wish I was in your position, sounds like you have a lovely girl there... you need to kiss her soon, make sure the environment is nice. You will know it's the right time when there is no one about, when you are both comfortable and when your both... kinda sitting in silence, - if you get the thought of kissing her in your head, and it feels awkward to try get yourself to do it, then GO for it, that is the right time... just playfully get closer to her and hug her :) she will hold you back from the sounds of it, and then run your hand through her hair and kiss her.
I hope I helped you out, I wish the for the best for you 2
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You could ask her if it is ok at an appropriate moment after you have both had a nice date and you told her you really like being with her.
Or you could kiss her casually first on the neck, cheek or forhead to sort of "break the spell" of a first kiss and see how she responds!
PS On your first kiss don't use your tongue unless she does first!
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kiss her on the cheek first! as a goodbye or hello. then ask her out when youre in a quiet environment. like the park. look her in the eyes when you ask her. if she says yes, then take her hand and walk around with her. then kiss her on the lips when you say goodbye. good luck :D
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Yeah, ask her out, buddy! ;]
If you've both been having fun with your dates, then why not? And yes, I think they were dates =].
Don't rush the kissing thing yet. There's plenty of time for that, you know? But if you really want to kiss her, maybe try it out, and if she doesn't really seem up for that, talk to her about it a little later and see what she's comfortable with ;]
--Jack
(16/m)
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