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im offically hating my life at the moment. i hear rumors about my boyfriend cheating me but yet everytime i confront him about it he'll say there making it up and start flipping out even say im lieing and making it up. but yet would people say stuff if it wasnt true? i want to believe hes telling me the truth, but yet deep down i know he probably isnt. and than when he goes back to the girls that told me they all tell him they never told me so it makes me look crazy. He'll ask me to the movies one night and than make up an excuse and turn everything back on me and say we arent going cause i didnt want to and not see me that ngith and tell me the next morning he went out with his friends. he thinks hes being honest but if he was honest wouldnt of he told me in the first place that night he was going intill the next morning? i feel like he always picks his friends over me and when were on breaks he tries so hard to get back with me yet goes around telling everyone hes single. and throws in my face the girls hes talking to. yet he tells me he doesnt like them and hell stop talking to them for me but who knows if hes lieing. He saids we need to talk about our problems but everytime i try and he wont answer me back or just push me to the side and say hell call me later but never does. it would nice to save this relationship cause its been for 2 years and id like to believe him when he saids he loves me. but its tearing me apart honesty and i dont know what to do cause when i try to stop talking to him and finally go this is it im done. he'll text..callme... message me.. non stop. and its my fault for giving back in. i feel as he only wants me when he has nothing better to do. has this happen to anyone else? any good advice, it would help alot.
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Ok, to me this guy sounds like a jerk. It sounds like he picks his friends over you and denying everything. Go with your gut feeling about if he is cheating or not. If you don't feel happy with him right now, then take a break or just tell him that you don't want to be together. It kinda sounds like he has a big ego. Well, i hope this helps.
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Ugh, my boyfriend was the same exact way. Everyone would tell me he was cheating on me and making me look stupid. But when i asked him "did you cheat on me with blah blah blah?" he would be like "Wow, who said that? Whoever did their just jealous. You probably said ''i dont believe you'' so they gave you the girls screen name to be a decoy and you asked them and they said yes, but their lying to you so you break up with me." That is exactly what happened, it seems like he planned on this happening. But, truth is, he did cheat on me, people just don't talk smack like that out of the blue. Do any of your friends pretend someone is cheating on their girl friend? I don't find it very funny when someone does... None of my friends do that, someone has to have no life to do that. Even my best friends from his school [we went to different schools, the next town over] told me that he was cheating on me, and every week he would ask her to hook up with her and she would ask "aren't you going out with laura?" and he would be like "nope". Its like hes embarrissed to be going out with me! SO MANY GUYS WANTED TO HOOK UP WITH ME --- the hottest guys in my school! i turned them down. But one day, a guy just came up to me and started making out with me, he was rather large so i couldn't push him off because i'm tiny. So he got pissed that i was attacked.. but yet i didnt flip a shit if i heard he cheated on me, unfair? yes.
i know this was a longish answer, but i really think it would be good if you left him. It did me so much for me, im a happier girl now.. It's the only thing, I went through the same thing, so if you want to IM me on Seeing S0unds <-- the o is a zero. you can, ill help you!
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