Okay, I'm 15/F and he's 17/M. I met him through some friends at a basketball game in February, and although I've had a few boyfriends since then, a small part of me has always had a thing for him. He's really flirtatious, and I can tell he likes me. I even ran into him at a party, where he was drunk, and he told me how he felt about everything.. Saying he likes me a lot but I had a boyfriend at the time. Anyways, now, it's summertime, we're both single, and he's moving to Texas in August (we live in Indiana). We talk a lot right now, and we're actually really close. I like him a lot, but I don't want to get too involved with him, since he's moving in a month.
What do I do?
Try to build a friendship with him, and just that. Keep it at a friends level. Make sure to let him know you only want a friendship. This will be much easier when he moves away, and you'll have some form of a relationship with him.
Debateist answered Sunday July 13 2008, 7:31 am: hey there okay why dnt you spend as much time as you can with him just now before he leaves then in August when he leaves make sure you get his phone number and adress and you can try the long distance thing people say it doesnt work but those r the people who dnt hav the patience to try. if you hav the internet then you can both get a cam and speak over that until your seen as old enough in the eyes of the law to travel and visit him on your own and hey i hope it does work but if it doesnt at least you hav a gd friend that you can go visit from time to time!!
hope ive helped and im sorry about how crap your situation is!!
good luk!!
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