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my cousin asked me if i was confuesed about my sexualatiy
I didn't tell my cousin anything about my sexuality so i don't know how my cousin knew i was sleeping with other girls until the other day when she told me she knew about my lifestyle but she wouldn't tell me how she knew she said the only thing that matters is that she did know and not how she found out but she asked me if i was confused about my orienation but iam to scared to tell her the truth i don't know if she knows the whole truth like me being bisexual so i don't want to tell her and then her be threw with me becouse me and my cousin are really close i tell her everything and she seems to understand but i don't know if she'll understand my orientation or not i just don't want my cousin to stop talking to me if i do tell her becuse i don't know if i'll be able to survive it what should i do?
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If your cousin did not want to talk about this, she would not have brought it up. It might be worth considering how she feels - you say you are very close and tell her everything, but she had to hear about this really big thing from someone else.
Being out can always be a complicated or scary thing. It's up to you to decide if you want to let people know you are bisexual - there are pros and cons in doing so. But if you feel your relationship with your cousin is really strong, she might surprise you by offering you a lot of support.
She may need some educating - after all, she is asking if you are confused rather than assuming you know your own mind. Still, this is quite common and if you both are open and honest, I would hope the situation could be resolved.
Whatever you decide to do, I wish you the absolute best.
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Politely tell your cousin that you
don't care to discuss your sex life.
Its a private thing.
I'm guessing she is wanting to help
you. Give you someone to talk to
about it, but its really nobody
else's business.
Someone else is giving her the info.
Don't mess around with people who know her.
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i think you should tell her and tell her that you dont want anything 2 change between the both of you...tell her your bisexual not a cousin molester or anything like that...just be opened about it with her
best wishes
~unhappychik~
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