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Getting Married and Getting Pregnant?
Kind of curious.... Im getting married to a wonderful man, and I thought until yesterday that we had been completly honest with each other, well some how we got on the subject of having kids, and we have talked about it before and we boh have agreed we wanted them, well yesterday he was like if it's possible. So I guess before we were ever together he got in an accident and got kicked by a bull down there and he says he cant have kids..... why didn't he tell me this earlier, but Im not going to not get married to him over that but is there any way that we could still have kids together or atleast one of our own? I really kinda upset by it but I guess I was just really looking foreward to starting a family. Sorry its so long.
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You could go to the sperm bank
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Have him see a urologist about this issue. They'll know if there's any real damage to his penis and testicles that would make it difficult or prevent ejaculation entirely.
I should also mention that it may not be from being kicked by a bull either. If he's on medication or has been for a long period of time and found himself unable to ejaculate at all or easily he should see the urologist. Chances are it could be a sexual side-effect of that.
Then again he could be BSing you all the way and rethought wanting children. Most likely, he has an issue with being unable to release semen easily or at all. Take him to the specialist mentioned above as they are the experts on the male reproductive organs and injuries to them.
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Maybe he waited so long to tell you because it's something he's self conscious about? Perhaps deep inside he may have thought you'd think him a lesser man. You never know. I wouldn't stress over that.
As for having kids or not, he can go in and have a fertility test done to see. The question of your specific chances of having a child between the two of you is something best asked to your doctor.
When you get married, then eventually decide it's time to try, don't stress over getting pregnant. Stressing makes it harder.
Example: A friend of mine and her husband have been trying to have a baby for nearly 2 years now. They "tried" for quite some time to no avail. One day, they decided to just not take pregnancy precaution, and if it happens, it happens.
What do you know... About 2 months later they discover they're expecting.
Best of luck to you both!
ygs-30/f
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