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more info. from my other question!
As I stated in my other question I'm going to a public school for the first time in a long time. and I just wanted to let you know that it is a pretty bi school. like I'm going from a middle school of about 100 and ssomthing kids to probley about 300 possibly more. And it kinda freaks me out because in my old school everyone knew mostly everyone and now I'm like ughhh what do I do!! I am very social and im afraid that if I am that way I may get into the "wrong" kind of group. I mean I like to be everyones friend but now going into this huge school I don't know if thats such a good idea anymore! So if that helps you out any please just let me know what you think I should do!! thankz inadvance!
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Ok, first of all, you need to calm down. If people see you all nervous and frazzled, they'll just think "She doesn't look like a very cool person." and they'll only know you as the nervous, new girl.
Secondly, The best way to make friends is to be yourself. I know, everybody says this, but it's true. You just need to start talking to people, and eventually, you'll become their friend.
I mean, obviously you need to talk to build a relationship. Just talk to them about everyday things. If you see a group of people who look interesting, just walk up and say, "Hi, I'm [name] and I'm new here, is it cool if I talk to you guys?" or something. Just get to know them a little, and see what kind group they are.
If they're the "wrong" kind of group, simply stop talking to them, or talk to them less. then, go find a new group of people until you find the right group of people for you.
And I want you to know, that you can have friends from different groups, but you don't HAVE to be EVERYONE's friend ;]
Good Luck!
-Laura. (16-f)
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