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Does he like me?
There's this guy that was in my class and i noticed that he's been staring at me since April..so i started to like him and i told him and he said that he has a g/f...but after he told me that, he still would stare at me then look away..he even tried to start a conversation with me on msn but i wasn't at my computer..i was going somewhere with my sister and i saw him walking on the same side of the street as me..he walked by me and we never said anything but then i looked back and i saw him look back at the same time..I'm so confused..does he like me?
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okay...dont ever tell a guy about the liking type of stuff,let them figure it out on theyre own and he might like you he probably dont know how to tell you ssince he has a gf and another thing since he does have a gf maybe he doesnt want to cause any drama.so i think next time he does stare at you ask him whats up?or is there anything on my face or someting? :)
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Did you learn something? I'm sure you did, but I'm not sure you learned the right thing. Number one rule, never ask the question, "Do you like me, or announce that you like him. It puts the guy on the spot, how does he know if he likes you or not, he doesn't know you. When you say you like him, it says many things and among them is "I'm easy," you want to know what else it says, that's another letter. There is also the fact that you take the relationship immediately to another level. You have gone from "Hi, my name is Gilbert," to, "let's go steady". There are quite a few steps in between that.
You are confusing his staring at a girl that turns him on in some way for him liking you. Do you really think he's going to answer your question with the truth. "Hi, I like you," "Yea, I'm sorry I was staring, but you has great breasts," great way to break the ice. Think of a better, less confrontational means of approaching guys that you think like you and you like. Talking is good, something you have in common, like the class you have together. Slow down, to some guys you may appear a bit hard up and needy, not a good way to look.
Learn that guys are just going to look at you. it will happen all your life, it does not mean that they want to be your boyfriend, get in your pants maybe, but again, that's another letter.
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Laura, below, gave my usual answer for this question ;].
He keeps staring at you, and that is definitely one of the top things a guy does when he likes you. I know I do that a lot- not in a creepy way, but just because it's.. I don't even know.
I'm pretty confident that he likes you, and though he's told you he has a girlfriend, that could either be true, or just something to make it look like he doesn't like you back. I'm taking a wild guess it's the latter, unless of course you've actually seen him with this girlfriend of his. If he really had a girlfriend, would he be fancying another girl?
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--Jack
(16/m)
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My guy friend answered a question that will help:
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From there:
"I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!"
-Laura. (16-f)
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