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What should I do?


Question Posted Monday July 7 2008, 6:47 pm

The following is based on assumptions that could be completely wrong, but I still want your opinion anyway, should my assumptions be correct.
I wanted to start a Gridiron club at my school for girls. Turns out, this girl has the same exact idea I do. I messaged her on Facebook, and yup, same idea.

This girl and I...we don't exactly run in the same circles. That is all I will say about that. She is nice, though.

The thing is, I've thought this out a lot more than she has (or so it appears to). I've got EXACT events in my head, sponspored activities, etc. etc, partially because my brother plays football for a college team, and I do this a lot.

After some inspecting, it seems like this girl, as nice as she is, does not have a lot of reach. I'm putting that nicely, but what I mean is, the club will consist of her friends only, so far, she only has 6 people interested.

I want the club to be filled with a diverse group of people. And yes, I want to be leader.

Should I, even though I've talked to her, make the club right over hers? I REALLY want to make it. I've been wanting to make it for a really long time, and i got ideas from my bro's coach.

[Like I said earlier, I could be completely wrong. Facebook often doesn't depict people as they are in real life. She could have a lot of reach, and be a better leader than myself.]

Thank you. :)


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TheFool answered Wednesday July 9 2008, 11:54 pm:
Just work with her and communicate with her more. You don't have to run it by yourself, and you probably shouldn't even if you did want to be the sole leader. I know this idea of yours looks perfect in your head as to how you want to run it, but keep in mind you will always need to take others opinions into account.

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Brandi_S answered Monday July 7 2008, 10:07 pm:
Ok, so this may sound silly, but wouldn't you have more reach if both of you banded together to run it?
I wouldn't just go and make a club over hers. That's just not right, in my opinion.


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