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My best friends ditched me!!
ok so my best friends and i have been together since the 5th grade. but one time i made a mistake and sent a kinda rude e-mail to them. i apologized and we were friends again. but then they acted like they didn't want to be friends with me anymore. so i sent another e-mail asking what was going on and why they were leaving me out. my one friend responded, yelling at me, she told me that it was my fault and im becoming distant and im being moody. she didn't understand that im busy and im growing up as well. soo today i figured out that all three of them, got together and hung out behind my back and once again, she acted as if it was my fault. i don't know what to do? im not becoming distant or moody! im a woman, and im growing up. i don't know if they're right or if i should move on and make more friends besides them? what should i do?
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They're obviously really crappy friends. It is really childish of them to blame you for their problem. It seems like you've said everything you can say about your past mistakes. Also, good friends don't ditch you if your behavior changes, they become concerned and try to help. They are really uncaring. You should move on and make more friends in the meantime. No need to put yourself through that. And, if maybe they are good friends after all, they'll come back to you.
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Yes, move on and make new friends. Sounds to me like you've apologized and tried to talk to them about it, but they just aren't listening or caring.
If you don't make new friends, be prepared to be left out, ignored, ect.
Don't let anyone do that. They obviously aren't good friends.
Best of Luck! :D
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