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Made a big mistake please help.
I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of months ago and now hes with somebody else and they are really in love and kissing each other and cuddling each other all the tim and when i see them i remeber that it used to be me that he did that to.
He was the only boyfriend that i ever really loved
i just want him back.
what should i do?
Thanks x
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You should move on.
Every girl feels like this after a break up,and the first one is always the hardest. Yeah, it's goingto hurt, and it's really going to suck, but you move on. Break ups are part of life.
Just don't look at your ex boyfriend and his new girlfriend. Just leave them alone, and do something else.
Try finding somebody new to spend your time with. It doesn't neccessarily have to be a guy yet, find a guy when you're ready. You can spend time with friends instead. Go get a manicure with your best girl friend, go shopping, do things that make you happy.
Hope this helps and feel better! =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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I don't get from your writing that you want him back, seems to me you want the kissing and cuddling back. I would not suggest that you try to get him back for one main reason, it has been a couple months and he already on to someone else. This does not say to me that he thought the same way of you. If it was love to him, he would not jump so easily to another girl.
Look at what you're feeling, I'd say it's more jealousy driven with a large portion of mourning over the loss thrown in. Step back and look at what you're really feeling sweetheart.
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There is absolutely nothing you can do about your ex dating another girl. You could play the waiting game and wait for them to split up, or you could go out and meet someone else yourself. If you are meant to be a couple you will get together at some point in the future. Please don't force the situation because you may make him come to hate you. All I can suggest if you are serious about wanting him back is to remain quietly in the background and bide your time whilst staying a good friend. Good luck.
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