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OK so since the last time, i like someone new..
This guy i dont go to school with but theres some bad .. he is 4 years older does drugs and smokes.
but i did it again an once i realizd i liked him i tried to get my friend and him together. it didnt work and he was the one that got hurt out of it. i felt really bad and i started talking to him on the phone and texting and now i reallly like him and someone told me he liked me too so i went and did it again and tottaly ignored him he got really annyeed and so im talking to him again but only when other people are around. i dont know what to do because im afraid if i come near him he will ask me out even though that would be cool cause i like him so much it would also be like horrrible because he is 4 years older drugs smokes prob drinks but he is sooo cool an nice.
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Sorry to say this, but you sound too immature to be in a relationship with someone so much older than you. Sounds like he just wants sex. The "afraid to go near him" thing while liking him shows immaturity and an inability to talk to him about your feelings. If you were more mature, I would say go for it. But I think your intuition is telling you not to date him. The smoking and dating make you uncomfortable and I think the fear you feel is telling you something-don't date him. Just be friends for a while.
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if you really like him, you'll deal with the smoking and drinking. but, if he does ask you out, don't get into drugs! drinking is okay if you're with a loved one. Age doesnt matter sweetie! all that matters is if you have a healthy relationship.
good luck<3
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