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what do i do, this guy asked me out to go to dinner and a movie on saturday and i said yes now its a couple days later and he thinks were boyfriend and girlfriend
what do i do becuase im really not sure if i want to go out with him
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The same thing happened to me once. Just be honest with him. You can't do any more than that. Emphasize that going on one dating doesn't mean you're dating. Tell him you only want to be friends and get to know him better so you can decide whether you want to date him or not (only say this if it is true). Otherwise, say it was nice being with you, but that you don't want to date him.
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if you really dont wanna go with him then dont just tell him yall can be friends and lata on if you begin to like him then date him dont let him think you guys are going out because you dont want to hurt just tell him that yall can only be friends
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The only thing you can do is tell him the truth.
Just sit him down and tell him that you only thought Saturday was a date (if you thought it was anything less, you need to look at it from his perspective). Tell him you aren't sure if you want to make a boyfriend/girlfriend commitment just yet, etc.
Even if you end up really liking him and dating him - the relationship would kind of be based on a lie/misunderstanding. That's definitly no way to start a relationship.
Just tell him you're unsure of your feelings for him and that you'd rather just try a few dates before making any commitment.
He'll probably be embarassed and it may make Saturday awkward, but don't cancel on him - that would make him feel worse.
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