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15/f
ok well when i go out with my friends for some reason i feel like a lot of different guys will look at me and think i look good and stuff, its just that when i actually hang out with them i feel like i cant just relax and have fun and i feel like ive never had a boyfriend or a first kiss because i have like no personality and stuff and idk maybe i just focus on what i look like too much and i know guys like girls with personalities but i just dont know how to become more interesting..
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First of all, it's perfectly ok to be 15 and not have had a first kiss or a boyfriend yet. You have your whole life ahead of you for that!
Second, if you're worried that you focus too much on how you look, simply stop. Don't wear so much make up or spend as much time perfecting that hair style. Just make yourself FEEL good, not LOOK good. Know what I mean? If you feel gorgeous, chances are, you'll look a whole lot better to anybody.
So, the rest of your question is about how to become more interesting? Well, I can't tell you exactly how to become more "interesting", but I can tell you that you should work on your confidence. Confidence is so attractive in the opposite sex.
Also, my friend, Jack, answered a question on what guys like in a girl and I think it really might help you out:
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From there:
"Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks."
I hope this helps! =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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