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sry this is kinda weird..
16/f
okay so.. let me start of by giving a little background. okay so this guy, let's call him A has liked me for pretty much 2 years. like he hooked up with other girls during that time and had like 2 girlfriends that each lasted for like a week, but in the end he stopped/broke up with them because he still liked me and it was bothering him. during almost 1 year of this time i had a boyfriend. i didn't have that much interest in A yet. but we became really good friends because he was good friends with my boyfriend, which he isn't anymore so i don't have to worry about that. anyways, i broke up with my boyfriend last summer. all this year, me and A became closer and closer friends. people like to say i led him on, but i was just flirting. and we used to talk to him on the phone a lot. i know i probably shouldn't have done that if i didn't truly like him but the thing was i did a little.. i just liked a few other guys also. that was the past though so we just try to forget about it. so basically now i actually do like him a lot. and he knows this. and he also still likes me. he was apparently going to ask me out.. he like wrote me a song and everything and burned it on a CD but then apparently i said something mean to him and he broke the CD. we're okay now though. we're like best friends now. we talk on the phone every single night, text eachother all day, etc. basically we really like each other. so anyways, a few days ago i hung out at his house by myself and we just watched tv and stuff. we didn't really do anything that sexual but i took his phone and so his hand was like under my shirt rubbing my stomach and legs and he was like whispering stuff in my ear, like he did this to try to get his phone back. and it like really turned me on. this has a purpose i promise.. ha. so then yesterday i went to his house again and i was really tired and just in pretty crappy mood. to make this short, we made out, he felt me up, etc. but i like wasn't into it at all. like i wasn't turned on at all. is this probably because i was tired and not in the mood to do stuff like this at all? because if i'm really not attracted to him then basically i'm just leading him on again by doing these things with him. so i want to know if those reasons could have been why i didn't like it as much as i thought i would.. because i honestly have wanted to hook up with him for like forever. thanks so much! <33
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Well okay. When you are in a bad mood or not feeling well things that would turn you on dont turn you on because your either thinking about them or you just block it out. I think what you need to do to be sure about your feelings are try it again when you are prepared for it and feeling up to it. I think that you could possibly just of not been into i thtat night so my suggestion is try it again and see what happens. If your still not turned on then you probably arent feeling him. if you are it could turn into more
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