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The guy I like is either shy, or he hates me. I wanna know!
Faye-17
Okay so this guy (Spencer) word got around that I thought he was awesome, and he randomly asked me out over myspace right when school got out. We've gone to dinner and a Gaming zone with his friends over a period of 1 1/2 weeks, and talked lots over myspace. He seems shy, but then again I think his friends pressured him into asking me out. His friends talk to me more than he does >.< and they're all still complete strangers to me.
we had an awkward momment when getting a ride home, it was just me and him alone in the back of a car in the dark. and like... he wouldnt even make eye contact. and truthfully. I wanna kiss him so bad. but Im afraid of what he'll do, and Im extremely shy myself! but does it sound like he's shy? and if he is, what do I do?!
~thanks
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Yes, it sounds like he is shy. It's going to take a bit of time for him to feel comfortable around you. Just make sure you're communicating as best as you can (carry on chatting over myspace, maybe call him every now and then) and things should get better. Perhaps you should go somewhere without his friends if you haven't already (make it public so he doesn't feel awkward).
Don't worry too much about it for now. Getting into a relationship is quite daunting for some people.
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He sounds uncomfortable, and shy. He probably has a hard time in public or around with other people. I doubt its hate if he can talk to you online.
Just give him some time. He'll open up eventually. Its probably best to just be in private with him then with his friends or with other people around.
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