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I'm so lost in what to do...


Question Posted Friday June 27 2008, 9:14 pm

The thing is, I broke up with my girlfriend several months ago, through a note. Stupidest move ever, never try it. Supposedly we broke up because I'm emapthic and I express other peoples emotions. To her, that meant I didn't love her. So we broke up because of that. What really started it was the fact she mentioned something on IM that she would normally say out loud. I believe that if you can mention something in a message or IM, you can just say it. She wouldn't and the whole empathic thing whatever. So we broke up.

Now, I can't stop thinking about it. Turns out, I've figured out, according to myself, that I gave her a chance to come back and we could start over. I waited and waited only to find out she's dating some other guy. So I gave up and thought nothing of. Until now when I realize that I'm still thinking about her and she cares nothing for me, totally oblivious. I want to tell her to her face how much of hurts inside to be told I don't feel any love for her and then she doesn't even try to get back together...

Sorry about the lengthiness, I tend to over do it on the details. But what should I do? Should I tell her to her face, on the fact just looking at her might send me over the edge!? I won't call her cause she can avoid listening by hanging up, I won't message her cause a message is just as bad as the first time. Do I just sit here and do nothing? No one tell me Ill get over it, cause its been months that I've been thinking about her... I'm so lost....


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luv_nelly_06 answered Saturday June 28 2008, 8:21 pm:
first of al,, im so sorry i know that this must be very devistating for you. second yea it was rather slow to break up with her in a note, but hey life goes on...if she isnt giving any effort to get back with you , this means she is still deeply hurt.. but im pretty sure she still has feelings for you... the only thing you can do is spill your heart out to her...tell her every emotion your feeling inside and just take it from there... and if she still wont forgive u after that, then its time to be strong keeep you head up and move on....



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ivelisse12 answered Saturday June 28 2008, 1:16 pm:
well i would say tell her to her face and tell her she was never worth all that trouble because she really didn't like you at all

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MissKhalili answered Friday June 27 2008, 11:26 pm:
honestly you can only do what feels right to you.
if you think that telling her face to face is best then do so, but remember that it can go either way.
you never know unless you try.
she could actually be feeling the same about you.
good luck
i hoped i helped=]

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MissKhalili answered Friday June 27 2008, 11:26 pm:
honestly you can only do what feels right to you.
if you think that telling her face to face is best then do so, but remember that it can go either way.
you never know unless you try.
she could actually be feeling the same about you.
good luck
i hoped i helped=]

if you need anymore advice:
AIM= BubbleGum3236

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