for about 6 months or so, my boyfriend and i have been having very intense arguements caused by jealously. he has/had these two close friends that were girls. and they are soo pretty, and i'm completely insecure and self-concious about the whole thing. well, one night at a party his two friends that are girls asked him to have a three some with him, but he declined. and he told them he was too in love with me to do that. but he had a video of them kissing on his phone. these girls have hated me for such a long time and say bad things about me to him trying to get him to break up with me. but my boyfriend doesn't understand why i don't want him to be friends with these girls. am i just overreacting or could this ruin our relationship.
PLEASE HELP!
thanks for listening.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? jennalovesyou answered Saturday June 28 2008, 3:24 am: if you got my advice link off my myspace..i think i know who this is
but i totally know how you feel. i have problems with jealousy with my boyfriend and some of his friends that are girls. but you have every right to be mad about the situation. it didn't really seem like you thought it was a big deal that he had a video of them kissing on his phone. or did you mean the two girls were kissing? hmm i have learned that...girls are bitches. obviously. it's a game; stealing boyfriends from other girls. but if your boyfriend says he's too in love with you to do anything with them, you should believe him and trust him unless he has given you a reason not to :). no matter how jealous you are. he should kind of understand that you don't want him to be friends with those girls. maybe try talking to him about that. why would he want to be friends with girls that try to break him up with the girl he is in love with, ehh? trying talking to him about that
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