this guy n i feel in love over vacation, he left on my third day and il never see him again. we cant even talk cause his cell is broken and i talked to him on his step mom an sisters cells but they dont live with him. i love him and he realllly loves me but i just cant take a long distence relationship and i think we should break up but i cant even talk to him so i dont know what to do??? any help
he called me everynight until his mom n sisters left and now he has no way and i cant call him bc his cells broken. he said hed call me right when it gets fixed and hes gona make a myspace but he hasnt done either yet.
i told his sister me n him should probly break up but idk how we cant talk and she says he stil really loves me, im all he talked about on the plane i love him to but i cant take a long distence relasionship its tearing me up :(
what can i do? say whatever you think
dulce8nina answered Wednesday June 25 2008, 3:33 am: okkk.
in my opinion your right,long distance relationships aren't the best ;//
i know i hate it when i go to mexx. && am apart from my baby even if its just a weekend hehe. i feel your desperation & pain but if you know for sure you aint never going to see him then maybe the best thing to do is tell his sister to let him know. Why would you hang on to someone who you cant hug/kiss and even worst speak too?
yeah it hurts bcuz you love him but theres always others although it may not seem like it at the moment.
Now if you will see him but not til like a long time tell him you guys should see other people just to see if you could make it thru at least til he comes back or something.
it's really up to you but between us i had a boyfriend who was 4 hours away and we went out for 6 months...girl i never spoke to him throughout those 6 months lol.
[[the difference is i didint like him at all;/]]
anywho....afterall you cant hold on to something thats invisible unless you put your best to what you know is invinsible.... pretty much do what your heart tells you!
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notyourmomsadvice answered Wednesday June 25 2008, 3:32 am: I think that at 14 you had a 3 day infatuation and lust. It's possible to fall in love with someone in 3 days, it's also possible to meet the person you'll be with forever at 14 but neither of them is PROBABLE. Move on whether you talk to him or not and if it's meant to be it will be. [ notyourmomsadvice's advice column | Ask notyourmomsadvice A Question ]
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