hi im a boy whos 13
im a curious dude and i like to know stuff about people.
first of all how would i get my friend(who are boys aswell as girls) to tell me who they like(or have a crush on or that kind of stuff)
cause i really like this girl and she never has had a boyfriend and she keeps sayin that she doesnt like sum1 but i think she does
im not certain but, i think she does and i think it might be me but im not sure
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? nisa12345 answered Monday June 23 2008, 11:37 pm: Getting people to tell you stuff isnt as hard as you think. but you cant be all up in their faces about asking them who they like. Most teens around our age (im 14) dont like to tell people their crushes unless your their trusted friend. All you have to do is get close to people. When they get comfortable they'll open up. Then just let everything happen by itself. But never, under any circumstance, tell other people their secrets. That will always backfire.
And
about the girl.
Flirt with her. Make
her feel good about herself,but dont get all creepy. When the times right tell her how you feel. Thats about it.
LostAngel answered Monday June 23 2008, 11:15 pm: Been there, done that. Teens that young, we were all immature and our hormones were out of whack. Chances are she may, but doesn't want to admit it. Not many friends of mine admitted we liked each other at 13. It was awkward and we were new to the whole "OMG i like him" "OMG i like her" Get what I mean? My best advice is to just wait it out, you could try to hint that you like her. See what she does. She might not be ready to date that early. I myself think 13 is way too early. Do you want to be 33 and say you have been dating 20 years now.. would that make you feel like "wow...i must be nothing and worthless if i can't find the girl after dating 20 years.." Get what I'm saying? I know that's probably what you don't want to here, but it's my best advice at 13.
Hope I helped.
-compliment her.
-invite her places.
-talk to her a lot.
-be around her 75% of the time, so she notices.
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