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i want a dood. ):
Well hello everyone! (:
okay so heres the thing, last summer i fell in love with this boy, who was wonderful, at least in my eyes, hah... well, we were together for a while, an off and on thing, but at the end he broke my heart. he did alot of messed up things, like have girls at his house after or before i left, things like that... but even though all that i still think of him, and i still love him!
he asked me to forgive him & i did.
so now were friends, which is better then not talking.
i wanna be with him again, but its complicated cause... well, im 14 almost 15 and he is 19 and hes in the air force. oh and my parents hate him :x
what should i do?!!?!
should i just forget him?
or should i try to be with him?
and if you think i should try to be with him again, how do i do it?
Thankssss!!! and please help me.
btw; im a girl, im sure you figured that out. hahaha
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I wouldn't forget him, but I wouldn't try for a relationship again. He broke your heart AND you'd be illegal if you were to do anything sexual. Plus, your parents probably have a good reason to hate him. The relationship could work sometime in the not-so-near future when you're both older, but if I were you I wouldn't pursue it any further than a friendship.
Being friends with him would be perfectly okay, as long as you're both mature enough to handle the situation. You're going to fall in and out of love/lust/infatuation. It's a part of life, and you have to accept it. And I know how you feel. Except change some ages and subtract the Air Force part, but, same general situation. It gets better with time, and there's more fish in the sea. use a non-seafood metaphor like, there's more shoes in the closet, or grapes in a bunch, if you don't like fish =P Regardless of how you word it, it's cliche, but so true.
-LM
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I'd forget about him.There is absolutely no reason to forgive him for doing something like that,plus youre too young to be w. someone that old.You need to be with someone who treats you w. respect & someone you can trust.He obviously doesnt deserve you hun.Let the other girls have him,theyll get hurt in the end too.
xo southern
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