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One night hook up
The other night i had a party, and i ended up hooking up with this kid that i've been distant friends with for a couple of monhts. We ended up talking and hooking up and stuff all night. He left the next morning at 8 and said he'd call me that night. He ended up not calling all day but i txted him at around 9 cuz i was with one of his good friends. I've barely talked to him since then, even tho we've hung out quite a bit since we're friends with the same people. I obviously figured it was just a one night thing, but he kept tellling me that he liked me that night. Every time we'd kiss he'd be like your so cute, i realy like you blah blah. I figured it was nothing at all, but he then told me i was the first girl he'd ever kissed, i wuold have never known. lol What do you think's up with him? Did he just lose interest that quickly or is he just shy as hell?
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As bad as this sounds i think he was just looking for a one night stand.The same thing happend to me one night..he told me basically the same things and led me into thinking he was interested in me but then i never heard from him.Thats just my perspective but guys are soo confusing you never know!!hope this helped
xo southern
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First, if he was shy he would not have hooked up with you the first night in my opinion.
It's all about respect - I say it all the time and people seem to get upset because people don't like the truth.
I am hoping this not be the case, but it is possible that this guy used you and has nothing to say since he has gotten what he wanted,beyond interest. OR Maybe he didn't want it to go down that way and it did, and he could also be regretting that this happened, as it does change friendships.
Based on how you are feeling about it, check it. If you like him and want to be involved with him, let him know but try to encourage NOT making out anymore until you guys know what you want for sure, and make sure you are protected because of risks involved with it. If you don't want it to happen again or go beyond friendship, talk to him about what happened and make it known that you don't want it to change your friendship with him and that you really have no intent of this happening again.
Be careful when deciding to do things like this, with guys. Please, because there are so many people who have caught Aids, STD'S or got pregnant from one night stands. There are also many good people who have build up reputations from one night stands too. One night stands or hook ups aren't respected and place people in situations to be judged. Also you don't have to give it up because someone likes you or to make them like you. I just wanted you to know this, because it is important to know now and even when you hit 34. "smile" Also, know this, a person will tell you anything that you want to hear to get the panties, so it is important to wait it out before acting so that you recognize the difference in game and fact - false and true, real and fiction so that next time, you won't be in a position to ask what's up with him. Instead you will know off top what's up with him before anything goes down with him. You feel me?
Take it easy and enjoy life, don't rush it because it already goes by too fast.
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