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attachedddd!
okay, so this guy & i were i guess "hooking up" for awhile. & me, being dumb & all, got attached. i'm not sure i REALLY have feelings for this guy, but i do like him, yanno? the thing is, i know he doesn't like me, he just wants to keep playing the hook-up game, & i don't play that. i'm really not sure what to do. this guy is really not that great at all, & he tried to fucking get with one of my bestfriends, i mean, how does that? anyways, i don't want to be attached to this guy, but i am. what do i do?
oh yeah & i'm fifteen, if that helps.
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the next time you seem him say, "i'm not intrested in being a hook-up. bye."
back up what you say with your actions. ignore him, don't give him the time of day. if you really don't want to be a hook-up girl than don't be one. this is a live-and-learn experience. now you know to avoid these guys, and these situations all together.
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Well if you do know yourself how much of an asshole he is and how he even tried to fucking get with one of your best friends like you say and how he's just playing around with you and like i'm gonna say, exactly treating you like his bitch, no offense ofcourse, but that's how it sounds like and how it seems like and i'm sure what his guy friends say about you or even anyone who sees you and him or hears about you.
Its obvious how he doesn't like you at all and how he doesn't care the least bit and how he's not interested and how he's not anywhere near stooping for any sort of commitment. Just a typical guy you meet everywhere, that immature type whose still young and silly, he thinks he's cool and popular and can get chicks and hook up and stay up late and do all this shit, so don't expect him to be serious about anything he does.
So why don't you do the right thing that he so young and immature fails to do, why don't you grow up and think this out to see how dumb and a waste of time it is, and how he is definitely someone who does not deserve all the attention, thought, care or most of all the love that your feeding him.
Why don't you go out more and meet more new people, make more friends and hang out with them more to get your mind off of all this shit, and maybe take up a sport or something educational or some summer job or i don't know, what else?
This is gonna help you to get your mind of him and for you to meet more people, so maybe you would meet another guy, one who would love you for real with care and respect.
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Well for starters.. I don't see what you COULD like in this guy, since it seems you two have only a 'sexual' relationship. If claim to not play the hook up game, but honey that is exactly what you did. And that is why he wants to keep playing it. Obviously, since he tried to hook up with your best friends, he clearly doesn't have feelings for you, he just wants sex. You're young, and you have so much going ahead of you. Just end it, the feelings will vanish once you've found real love. Not shallow love. Honest, I promise. It will be hard to get over him at first, because of how intimate you were with him. But its just one step after another, and realizing that you deserve better.
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