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he keeps me coming back for more.
theres this guy - lets say his name is andrew.
andrew constantly flirts with me, for the past six months.
andrew considers me one of his top 5 girl friends, and he also flirts with the other four.
i told andrew that i like him about 2 months ago - then after a week, i said i had stopped, but our friendship still stayed the same.
then i told andrew recently that i had liked him again - andrew admitted that when i liked him before - he also kinda liked me.
andrew kept flirting with me - among with the other four girls.
but before i tell andrew i like him (the second time) - he talks about his relationship with this other girl - ally.
ally has a boyfriend named john - but she cheated on john with andrew; they held hands, they almost kissed, and they had their arms over their waists.
i told andrew that i liked him - he said sorry for saying those things about ally.
to make a long story short - i hate the fact that i like him, and im trying to get over him. i told him that i was trying to so i said that i wanted to stop talking to him for a while; but he said not to. i wanna get over him; but i cant.
question is; how can i?
p.s - please dont tell me to like; talk to him about it, because i already did.
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Don't talk to him for a while.
Your gut instinct was bang on. The way to get over a guy who is not for you, but one you can't help liking (and wont stop flirting!) is to spend a month or two away from him.
It's too bad that he doesn't have the sense or sensitivity to see that is the best thing for you to do. It's too bad that he selfishly wishes to keep things just the same as the are, even though the same upsets you and hurts you.
That really is too bad, but his opinion doesn't count.
Tell him you are sorry, but you need to stop talking to him for a while and he just needs to respect that.
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he seems like a player to me.I know a guy just like him his name is travis and he has a girlfriend but always says he likes me.Dont buy it,he just wants the attention.Best thing to do is leave him alone.
xo southern
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