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not sure what to do
I'm 17f. Last weekend I was sleeping over my best friend's house. We're really close and she knows everything about me. But since we're both religious Jews and our families are too, we're very modest. We never change in front of one another or anything like that. One of su goes to the abthroom and other changes in the bedroom. Anyway, On Saturday I woke up at like 7;30 because I heard a noise. I looked around and saw my friend in her hed. She was on top of the blankets and her p.j. pants and panties were off. She was playing with herself. She must have thought I wouldn't wake up. Anyway I didn't move at all, and sort of squitned so it would look like my eyes were closed but really I could see her. Since her beds are in a L shape design, I saw everything.
I was never sure if she did that, but since I know I do, I figured she must do it too. But it's not something we would EVER discuss. Now I kinda feel guilty for watching her, but at the same time I'm kind of interested in talking to her about it since I don't have anyone I can talk to about that stuff. But I'm afraid she'll be totally embarassed and I might lose my best friend. At the same time, I'm scared because seeing her like that . . .get me VERY turned on. What do I do?
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You can talk to her about masturbation, because now that you know she does it, its something you guys can discuss. I wouldn't mention you saw her, because that could be extremelyyy embarassing for her, and it could create an awkwardness in your relationship, knowing you saw her naked.
Don't mention that she turned you on unless your both lesbians or bisexual, because that could make things very uncomfortable.
I'm not quiteee sure what your question is, if you want to confront her about it or talk about masturbating. If you want to confront her about it, I personally wouldn't do that because like I say it creates the awkward tension. So the only reason to say that is if you are tryna come on to her, since you did mention you were turned on. Anywaysss if you wanna talk about masturbating with her, do it (without mentioning you saw her). It isn't unnormal, guys do it alllll the time, and many girls talk about it to.
Just dont do anything that could embarass either of you. Its very common and the majority of the population does it so its nothing to be ashamed of.
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part of her being embarrassed may include her getting mad at you... maybe you can bring the subject up if you feel the need to talk about it but don't let her know that you saw her.
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