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Question Posted Monday June 16 2008, 10:42 pm

soooo its been 2 weeks today that we have been friends.
and he and his gf just broke up..
and i sensed something wrong the last week or so with them..
he wasnt always happy when we were were around each other..and it always happened right before he saw her or right after he saw her..anyways tomorrow he was suppose to come over for this sandwich my mom was going to make back in december but he couldnt come over, he IMed me earlier saying he didnt want it, he didnt mean to be rude..and that he just wants to be left alone, no buts or had to's, no IMs, calls or texts. and i already knew what he wanted he didnt have to say it..but it hurts since...i was always there and now im like...yeah..i have to watch knowing he isnt okay..and idunno..i told my mom he wasnt gonna come over..and shes all why..and im all "he broke up with his gf" and then shes like "then he we can just drp it off" and im like "yeah he doesnt want it" and then shes all "maybe hes turning into an asshole..too.." and it made me cry knowing she just said that...everyone is saying he is an asshole..and he isnt..and idunno...i cant escape this...

it hurts to see him not okay.
knowing i cant be all "im here whats wrong?"
and its hurts trying to walk away from him like this...
idunno why im crying..there are so many reasons why..and i dont know the exact reason or is it because of all the reasons..erhh....:-\


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karenR answered Tuesday June 17 2008, 12:27 pm:
Wanting to be alone for a while is normal
when you break up with someone. I know
your first instinct is to want to help.
He was polite about it so respect his
wishes for a while. Give him a week or
two to get back to normal. I don't
think he is being an asshole this time.

Give him a little time and all will be fine
soon. :)

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